People Parroting Pets?

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See the resemblance?


It has been widely noted that pets often begin to resemble their owners, sometimes to comedic proportions.

Why is that?

What is it that will ultimately make me look similar to my 20-pound, mixed Siamese/Maine Coon cat?

I personally don’t see the resemblance, although my wife tells me there is a strong likeness if I don’t shave for a couple days.

There is actually scientific data to explain this phenomenon.  Stanley Coren, Ph.D.,  professor of psychology at the University of British Columbia, writing on, talks about doing a study.  He tested 104 women students, showing each portraits of four different dog breeds.  He had them rate the dogs, then asked them a series of questions to determine if there was any preference for certain animals by certain types of women.

He found that, for example, women with longer hair covering their ears tend to prefer a Springer Spaniel or Beagle over the Siberian Husky or Basenji, who were preferred more by women with short hair that exposed their ears.

In general, he found that people tend to choose their pets based on familiar features to which they are, consciously or not, attracted.

I guess it isn’t so different from family members, who even if they don’t look exactly alike tend to take on common features and mannerisms just from living in close proximity.  When you live with people for decades they’re bound to rub off on you, so why shouldn’t that be the case with pets too?

As I write this I am staring into the face of my cat, who likes to jump up on my desk when I am at my computer and get eyeball-to-eyeball with me.  He is sitting like a statue, his eyes are half-opened, he appears to be near sleep.

I have to wonder if I look like that too?  I guess at times I do, but without the pointy ears.

The familiarity is probably why we get so close to our pets.  Dr. Coren noted that our own face is something we are quite familiar with – we see it in the mirror every day. So having a pet around all the time, we eventually take on their mannerisms, or they ours.

As I now watch my cat, Raven, lick his paw to bathe himself, I suspect that part of the theory is a bit flawed; but he does raise his left eyebrow as he looks at me wondering why I’m staring at him, similar to what I tend to do with my left eyebrow, so maybe it does warrant further study.

Humans have opposable thumbs, a cognizant brain (with some exceptions) and a soul, therefore we consider ourselves the dominant species; yet, I have to wonder, which species is it that feeds, cleans up after and otherwise provides for the other?  Yeah, think about that; who’s in charge here anyway?

Which further makes me wonder; do our pets emulate us, or we them?

For example, data supports the theory that animal mannerisms are, in part, due to the shape of their faces; their muzzle obstructs their view of our face so they tilt their heads to get a better look.  We think it’s cute, so we do it when we want to look cute.  They do it because they have to but we do it to emulate their cuteness.

I’ve read that when humans pick our pets we tend to gravitate, knowingly or not, to pets that strike a familiar chord in us, maybe because we intuitively see a resemblance.  But I have to wonder, are the animals actually manipulating us?

Consider the fact that animals’ senses are much more highly tuned than ours; their senses of sight, hearing and smell are way better than ours in most cases and they have spidey senses we don’t even understand.

Take Raven for example.  He found us one rainy Thanksgiving morning when he was a tiny, 2-month old, cold, wet, homeless and hungry bundle of fur who got trapped in our garage.

Or did he?

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